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Good attendance is the “real deal” for
school success
Ever
pull your child out of school a few days before a
vacation week to save on airfare? Or let your child hang
out at home, even though you were sure his complaints of
a stomachache were questionable? No harm, right?
Wrong! Area principals say that unexcused
absences are becoming more and more common today even in
the face of some of the toughest academic challenges
junior high schoolers have ever had to meet.
New
York State education law requires that children ages 6
to 16 attend school regularly and making sure that they
do is a parent’s responsibility. However, the importance
of school attendance goes far beyond meeting the letter
of the law. Here’s why:
Students who are frequently absent miss
out on important lessons and hands-on practice that
aren’t easy or practical to re-create. What’s more,
junior high school is simply more challenging—and
essential—than ever before.
Take
for example a “basic” subject such as math. Today, many
students are being introduced to algebra early in junior
high school as a gateway to more complex high school
math and science courses (geometry, calculus, physics
and chemistry, for example). The National Science
Foundation estimates that in 2010, as many as one-fourth
of all jobs will be based on math, science and
technology. Additionally, the number of new U.S. jobs
requiring math and science—from retail sales to
high-tech computer software design and
programming—continues to grow. Without adequate skills
and early training in these subjects, some fear that
American students will be less qualified than their
peers overseas for desirable jobs.
Consider, too, foreign language classes. Not only do
they teach cultural awareness (life-enriching and
increasingly important in our global economy), but they
also provide students with the ability to communicate
well and work together with their peers worldwide.
In
addition to old school “basics,” junior high schoolers
are learning the “new basics” as they collaborate
face-to-face with classmates, and electronically with
students in other schools, on long-term projects. They
are also becoming skilled at researching and
demonstrating what they know with the same technologies
regularly used in many workplaces (i.e., the Internet
and PowerPoint presentation software).
School
needs to be job #1
Making
school attendance a priority helps children learn the
good work and study habits that will serve them well now
and throughout their lives. On average, junior high
schoolers have one to two hours of homework each night.
Even one missed day can mean having to tackle three or
more hours of homework the following night—practically a
guarantee that kids won’t be doing their best work in
the rush to just get through it all.
Regular school attendance also teaches
children the ethics of responsibility and dedication.
These character traits, along with strong academic and
technical knowledge, are what today’s employers say they
value most in those they hire.
Granted, they’ll have occasional sick
days, but young, healthy children rarely need to miss
more than a few days each year. Kids need to know that,
unless they are truly unwell, you expect them to go to
school every day and do their best while there. Here are
some suggestions that can help you make this important
point:
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Make attendance and academics a
priority.
Show them that going off to work and meeting your
commitments—even when it might seem tempting to call
in “sick”— is something you do, too. Let them know
that school attendance and homework come before time
with friends, extracurricular activities or the
computer. Also, help them understand the
consequences of missing school in terms that will
hit home for them (e.g., having to stay after school
to make up missed work, missing out on after-school
sports and clubs or time with friends.)
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Help them get organized.
Create a space in your home for kids to store
backpacks, coats, sneakers and other supplies.
Develop a routine where children help pack their own
lunches and school bags and do necessary laundry the
night before. This will make mornings less hectic
and help kids arrive at school on time each day.
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Set reasonable bedtimes.
On average, junior high schoolers need about nine
hours of sleep to be healthy and alert. As they move
into the teen years, kids’ brains begin to signal
them to stay up later—and to sleep in later the next
day. Despite what nature is telling them, reinforce
reasonable bedtimes for your children and encourage
them to get up and get ready on their own.
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Make medical and other appointments
during non-school hours
whenever possible. Schedule family vacations during
school holidays or the summer recess so students
aren’t missing important lessons and struggling to
make up for lost time.
Attendance=test success
As eighth-graders, students take a series of state tests
that measure their abilities in English/language arts,
math, science and social studies. Students who come to
school each day and work hard at their studies fare
better on these tests.
Students who score poorly on the eighth grade exams (or
other key exams in grades six and seven) receive
academic intervention services. This may include
remedial classes, one-on-one tutoring, summer school
classes or other services to help them catch up
academically. Yet playing “catch-up” is something
students should try to avoid since it will seriously
limit their high school coursework options and could
delay graduation.
Stemming the truancy trend
School counselors say there are a number of common
reasons kids skip school, such as:
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to avoid frightening settings, such as
the school bus, hallways, the gym locker room.
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to avoid academic responsibilities,
such as presentations or tests.
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to avoid uncomfortable social
experiences with bullies or perceived hostile
teachers.
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to get more personal attention from
parents at home.
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to stay home for entertainment (T.V. or
computer games).
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to avoid possible embarrassment from
going back after previous absences.
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to avoid the inconvenience and effort
of getting up to go to school (having clothes ready to
wear, keeping materials ready for school or keeping up
on homework).
If
absences become common, talk with your child and enlist
the help of his or her guidance counselor, teachers or
pediatrician. Working as a team can help provide a
clearer picture of what’s at the source of the
attendance problem.
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Source:
http://www.parentsuccess.com
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